Do You Do Pillow Talk--If no Indulge now.

I just want to see you without blinking;

Let the tears flow for I shall not hide anymore;

Let me enter your heart through your eyes;

For I know they won't lie anymore;

I just want to see who resides there;

I promise I won't complain if I am not;

I will close my eyes and rest in peace, but please show me your heart......

Does marriage make love accomplished or love makes marriage accomplished? We cannot answer this question without rethinking. Sometimes relationship becomes monotonous to such an extent that we start taking the most important person in our life for granted. All these are after effects of lack of communication between the partners. 

What is Pillow Talk?

Communication is important in a relationship but finding the right time to communicate can leave both of you feeling drenched in love and bliss. And that's exactly what Pillow Talking is all about.

There are so many things that make a relationship happy. Good memories, beautiful time spend together, great holidays, bad times handled smilingly and many more. Imagine you and your better half after a long tired day unwinding yourself cuddled in each others arms resting shoulders on cushioned pillows and talking about just anything- be it your lives, problems or even your relationship. It feels good listening to each other. Doesn't it? 

That's exactly is my point of view about the pillow talking contrary to the popular belief  that it is associated with sex or with after play. As communication is important for the relationship so is the pillow talking to the romance. It connects the lovers emotionally and physically and bring two lovers close especially if the communication is right for the occasion.

Is it important? Do we really need it?

Pillow Talking does one of the most important things in your relationship. It not only builds the connection and love between you and your partner but also rids the pressures of the day. As you listen to the calm voice of your lover, it soothes you down physically and mentally and, however, bad the day may be you defeat it before sleep. It will relax both of you to open up to more intimate communications without the worry of arguments. 

Slowly and gradually with each passing night, your communication starts to get frank and open and the feeling of love will definitely grow with each passing night.

Time plays and important role in pillow talking. Do we realize that our full day is spent in work, office and children? Staying together under one roof makes us feel companions but at that time of the night, when you are away from all the distractions of the world, just a few minutes of pillow talking will make you feel lovers all again.

There are couples that do pillow talking and there are couples that don't. But the couples that do not indulge in a bit cuddly sleepy conversations will always lack that emotionally connect, a zing in their relationship compared to the couples that pillow talks.

Talks that mingle with bedsheets

Are you a good pillow talker? Life is not a bed of roses, we all know this but to bring the hardships of the day and grudge while sleeping is not a good idea. So, always try to do good pillow talks.

Remember, some conversations make you and your lover feel at the top of the world while a few bad ones can leave you and your better half drained out of your energies as you turn in for good night sleep.

Before we get to the good conversation, let me point on the bad ones you need to avoid.

Do not talk about life miseries, sadness, how unfair the world is to you, your financial troubles or the terrible day at the office or home. Leave these crucial talks for the dining area or coffee table.

Try to look at pillow talking as the bright side of your life. Talk about the happy moments of the day, your achievement in life being together, the silver lining in the dark cloud. Holding each other's hands, cuddling so closely that you can hear each other breathe, dream of a beautiful life together and visualize it together.

If you have a happy conversation while pillow talking your life, your relationship and your own lives will start to feel upbeat and exciting.

6 happy conversations that make pillow talk awesome.

Now that you know what is pillow talk and the importance of it, you may be wondering what are the perfect conversations of pillow talks. Among many these sixes are the best that will make you fall in love all over once again and you will certainly have an upbeat relationship.

#1. Complements: It's time to be flirty and romantic now. Did your spouse pulled you back while bidding goodbye this morning before leaving for the work, because your lover looked irresistible in that outfit. Or, how everyone was staring at last weekend party because you both look just great together. Then talk about it, it will bring a huge smile on your lover's face.

#2. New things try out: Do not worry about anything that went wrong, be it your work, parenting or sex. There is always a second option and another chance. If sex wasn't great last night, then talk about the new things that would include to make it wonderful next time. If your child was not happy with any decision of yours then discuss what would you do next time while discussing that problem again. Always try to see your problems with new perspective and talk about ways to improve it which will make your pillow talks more passionate.

#3. Romantic Memories: Talking about love in bed is always a booster. Ask and tease your partner if they remember the first time they came closer, kissed passionately or that romantic gateway or that first rain when you both drenched together or any loving incident that is a happy memory. One incident will lead to another and so on and before you even know you will feel the most luckiest couple present on this earth.

#4. Vacations: Nothing makes you excite more than talking about a  good vacation or gateways. If you both have been working hard then it's time to take a break and discuss new vacation. Discuss places to go and all other happy vacation ideas. Remember all the cute memories you had in your previous vacation. Both of you will not only feel good but it will also motivate you to achieve your goals faster.  

#5. Past Struggles: Past struggles are always like a milestone, and it is always inspirational if you both have achieved after the struggle or the sacrifice you made. Talking about old struggling days and comparing it to the present day will bring a smile of happiness and contentment in your faces. What better than a contentment of achievement and that too together before a good nights sleep.

#6. Dreams about the future: Pillow talking about each other dreams and visions will help both of you understand each other's lives and goals better. It will also create fantasies about the wonderful future and  both of you will feel great imagine what the future holds. Listening and understand to each other's dreams will also lead to motivate each other for the fulfillment of dreams and visions. It will not only help in bonding better but you also feel the support and trust of your partner.

The more both of you open to each other about your daily lives, the more connected both of you will feel. And as long as both of you are aware of each others life, there will be no room for insecurity, jealousy, and third person entry. There will be room only for love and trust.