Why married man fall for another woman

Akshay. 35. Friendly.Warm. Handsome. Highly accomplished. Married. After seven years of marriage, a beautiful wife, successful in career and a father of a son he realised that life is monotonous. He wanted more from his life and he had much more energy than to be consumed by his wife. He could not wait more and then when Sara entered his life.......

It is very common to come across married men having a relationship with another woman. Perhaps it has been happening since Vedic age, the difference lies only that, that time men had the liberty to marry more than one women, so extramarital affair did not sustain.

Why would it be when you are free to keep even seven wives at your place. But now as we took urbanisation the rules of the society changed and so the laws, but men never changed. Either be it their psychological or emotional need or for the enjoyable intimacy, ego boost or just for the sake of lust and fun, men have always craved for affection from another lady. I am not saying that married woman doesn't cheat (my next article would be on that) but yes comparatively men deserves to be on higher statistics.

I have come across many couples who have faced such bitterness of life and have discussed various points which indicate the reasons why men fall for another woman. What I have learnt will discuss with my readers too.

Men are always loved by the woman, this is a fact. Therefore just as a woman looks for her father figure in another man to fulfill her security needs, a man would also look for a woman who is extra caring to fill that vacuum in his life. This is called psychological and emotional need.
Therefore, it is very important to have an affectionate relationship between the companions.

Even in happy marriage, it is possible for men to have a roving eye or even crave for another woman's love and affection. It may start with locking of the eye, then casual coffee meetings and soon turning into a serious affair. Such kind of affair is done only for the sake of lust and fun.

Both partners should be cautious of any such new acquaintance.

We are in the age of urbanisation and with it comes modernisation, independence and free thinking. We are working in the office where we always interact with the opposite sex. No man can enter a woman's space without her permission and vice versa. If a man gets a loud and clear signal to a relationship then only a few will decline. Men have a tendency to easily fall in love with someone who is open, approachable and is ready to be loved. As I said, we have entered modernisation, women also enjoy alluring men towards them.

Therefore, it is very important to have a clear communication every day and understand your spouse need well.

Whatever were the reasons that connected the man to another woman but now he is enjoying. Sometimes, men with good looks feel like a superhero that the female crave for him or there is another lady (other than his wife) who is in mad love with him and keeps his spirits always high. Same feeling a woman has for another man (other than her spouse) who find her beautiful and attractive and gives her loads of attention.

So, couples keep your ego aside and praise each other and respect feelings.

There is no end to the discussion, I know the readers reading this may have more points to add. Obviously, we can't change the traits of being a man or a woman because opposites always attract. Therefore, to conclude here, I would say that a married man gets charmed by another woman. Not only they fall head over heels but they also gain from the relationship till the time it lasts.

Therefore, it is better in the interest of all that there should be no cheating. Stay married, stay happy.

Please feel free to post your comments.

Next article would be: Why married woman cheats on their spouse.